Personal Development

Simplest Stress Reducing Thing Ever!

I’ve always been a believer in using technology to assist us and to not become a slave to it,  but at some point it got the better of me and sucked me in.  I’m not even sure when it happened.  It was slowly but surely eating away at my well being and sanity.

With 2 personal email accounts, work email, LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, my website, Messenger, text messages and many other apps, my phone was constantly buzzing to alert me about the latest and greatest communication that had been received.  I was “smart” though, and used technology to change the tones of the various apps, which ones would vibrate, how many vibrations, and even had different coloured LED flashes to differentiate them.  It was an engineering masterpiece!  It was great the way I utilized technology to bring audible order to my mayhem of social media notifications!

Overtime as I added more apps it became out of control.  My stress levels were going up.  I’m not talking nervous breakdown levels, but nevertheless, my focus and concentration was constantly being broken and I found I had a heightened level of constant irritation.  I didn’t even know it was there really and when I did notice it I didn’t realize the source.

So what did I do?

I simply turned off all the notifications for all my apps, except my phone itself.

That’s it.

For many of you perhaps this is as obvious as your natural instinct to breathe, and for you kudos!  I’m happy for you.  However, this post is to help the many others that I know and see daily falling slave to our technology.   Like me, they likely don’t even realize it nor the negative impact it is having on them.

It is widely accepted that once interrupted, it takes 20 minutes to get back in focus and be productive.   Now stop and consider how many alerts you are getting.  Even if you don’t open the app, that “ping” is usually enough to snap you out of your train of thought, pause during a conversation, or lose focus on the task at hand, as your eyes sneak a quick peak at the text alert flashing on the display.

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Originally posted by Mary Garza

Recently, a teacher in the U.S. had her students turn their phones on loud, and every time they received a notification they went up and put a tally mark under the correct category.   The flip chart indicates the number of notifications received in one class, one period.  Incredible!

Of course we all have responsibilities that we can’t ignore and I’m not suggesting that.  Schedule times throughout your day to check and respond to emails and other necessary communications.  Request your team and family to call your cell phone if urgent.  Establish and communicate a response SLA (Service Level Agreement) to which you will respond and commit to it.

It was shocking to me the difference turning off the notifications made to my state of mind!  It truly was amazing!  Try it!  You’ll like it!

What simple changes have you made to reduce your stress levels?

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How to argue in peace:  Hear the other person without interrupting.  Begin your response by thinking, “I’d rather be happy than right.”  State your fears (inside every opinion that causes a rift is a fear – and we are more willing to give up fears than cherished opinions.)  Focus on issues, not personalities.

H. Rather

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Are Invisible Signs Hurting Your Team’s Culture?

Signs are an important visual control and many serve meaningful purposes.  But, have you ever seen an invisible sign?  I’d be willing to bet you have!  You may have even made an invisible sign yourself at some point.  So how do you create an invisible sign?

Don't sit on fence

You can see invisible signs everywhere!   They can be found in parking lots, airports, workplaces, and pretty much any public place.  They are incredibly easy to make.  Below are two of the generally industry accepted ways to make an invisible sign.

  • Create a sign following some kind of incident to state the obvious with the intention the sign will prevent re-occurrence.
  • Create a sign that treats adults like children.

Caution-Toaster-Is-Hot_thumbInvisible signs are a clear warning that something is wrong and you need to look deeper.  In the first example, these type of invisible signs may indicate that root cause has not been determined.  Installing an all too obvious sign can be a ‘sign’ that action for the sake of saying action has been taken is at play.  Unfortunately, often this is done following a safety incident.  Those doing the investigation don’t know what else to do.  It was a “freak” incident, or the person wasn’t following the safety rules or paying attention.  However, what this invisible type of sign is saying is that root cause has likely not been determined and further analysis is required.

The second type of invisible sign is equally concerning and likely points to a culture

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2 Automatic-flush Urinals with 3 signs – “Please Flush After Use”

and/or leadership issue.  No adult likes to be treated like a child, yet we see it far too often.  No doubt, sometimes in the workplace things arise that makes you wonder, but you need to ask yourself, which came first?  Were the employees acting like children first, or were they treated like children first?  This type of invisible sign shows that there is likely a cultural issue going on.  Typically along with that is a leadership issue as well.  I say there is likely both because the nature of these invisible signs actually points to a less than desirable culture.  The leadership, in an attempt to curtail undesirable behaviours, put up signs rather than recognize and address the deeper rooted cultural concerns.  This then spirals, creating an environment where leadership treats the employees as children.  Of course this can happen the opposite way, where leadership starts by treating the employees as children which creates an undesirable culture.  Either way, the posted signs serve no other purpose but to drive this poor culture creating a respect issue between the leaders and employees.

Watch for these invisible signs.  Once you train your eyes to see them you will be shocked how many there are, where they are, but being able to see these invisible signs you’ll know what to really look for!

Here’s my favorite…. this was not staged!

Conserve paper sign

 

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